Party and Play

PNP or ‘Party and Play’ means doing speed (the party) and having sex (the play). It can last for several hours or days of near continuous sexual activity.

Things to watch out for:
Breaks in the skin: All that friction during long sex sessions can cause abrasions. Your dick can feel like it has been sunburned, your nipples can feel like you ran a marathon without a jog bra and your asshole can feel like the TransBay Tube. All this activity can increase your chances of exchanging an STD, including HIV, but it will also just leave you sore for a few days. Condom Breakage – For some reason they have yet to develop a condom that will last for 9 hours of continuous fucking! Not eating or sleeping for several days plays havoc with your entire body and increases susceptibility to all diseases. Sharing toys – dildos, butt plugs, that type of thing – can also mean you're sharing diseases. Before anything goes in you, make sure it's clean. Most guys notice that their standards for sex partners change between 3pm and 3am. Well, on a three-day jag, your impeccably high standards in sexual partners can change from Mr. Right for the Night, to Mr. Right Now, only to end up with Mr. Available. And who knows the sexual health of these people? Find out! And of course, you end up being Mr. Available to someone else. A multi-day sex jag can undo several months at the gym, a fifty dollar hair-cut, hundreds of dollars of skin and hair care products, and the hours you spent selecting the right outfit. For heavy sexual scenes (heavy SM, role play, fisting etc), especially with relative or complete strangers, the more loaded you are, the more you can get lost in the scene which, of course, is one of its attractions. Generally, it is a good idea to keep at least one foot in reality just in case the fantasy takes a nasty turn and you need to break the scene.

Strategies to reduce possible harm:
Change sexual positions often, increase the amount of lube that you use or put on new condoms on some prearranged schedule. Set a timer to remind yourself to give your body what it needs: water, medications, a rest, some food, etc. You can use an alarm, timer, when a CD or video stops playing, or timed lights. Not recommended: candles (fire hazard), or relying on a non-alarm clock (Do you really think you could remember a target time or look at the clock regularly?). Cock rings, when left on for hours, can cause major problems down there. Best advice: use a leather tie and loosen it every once in a while. Set target limits for how long you want to binge before your binge begins. You can control this by controlling your available cash. Giving the rest of your available cash, credit and ATM cards to a trusted friend may work and will certainly prove if you can trust your friend. A better method would be to put your money and plastic in a safe deposit box on Friday so it’d be difficult to get until Monday. Drugs, heavy sex (S-M, role playing or fisting) and strangers can be a very dangerous combination. Don't get into anything too heavy with a stranger or someone you don't trust. Even if you set limits, if both or all of you are on drugs, your limits may go out the window.